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INTERVIEW WITH ALFRE WOODARD
By Christina Radish
Currently one of the busiest working women in show business, four-time Emmy Award winner Alfre Woodard can currently be seen on the big screen in the new inter-racial romantic comedy Something New, while also appearing in the home of millions of viewers, every week, on the hugely popular and successful ABC series Desperate Housewives. Playing the well-off mother of a career woman who has not found the same success in love as she has in business, the 53-year-old Tulsa, Oklahoma native says that, because she understands what it is like to be raised in a culture of black elitism, she felt that she could bring her character, Joyce, to life in a believable way.
“She really embraces the culture that she was raised in. I grew up around women like that. I was supposed to be a debutante. It was a big deal because, if you are from certain families, you are supposed to do it. My sister was Miss Debutante for the Elite Ladies, and I was supposed to be it, six years later. Meanwhile, I turned into a hippy and political activist. They tried a lot of different campaigns to get me to do it. But, in the end, my mother and father said, ‘If you don’t want to do it, don’t do it.’ And, I just couldn’t. So, I wanted to be able to do Joyce because I thought that I could bring her to the screen and make the Joyces of the world laugh at themselves.”Another way in which Woodard identified with the script for Something New was in the fact that she, herself, is in an inter-racial relationship with her husband of 23 years, writer Roderick Spencer, with whom she has two children.
“I think the thing that’s familiar is that, when you meet somebody -- and it can just be a friend, not even a potential lover -- and you feel like, ‘I get that person,’ you go with it,” she explains. “I’ve never been a person that resisted the impulse when I felt something in that person that would make me more myself. Love is a spiritual quality. And, if you happen to find a friend, or a potential lover, it is a rare and blessed thing to find. It just seems like spitting in the face of God to go, ‘Oh, no, I want him to have this or this instead.’ You can do that, and that’s fine, but that’s a life decision, and I was not going to live my life as a victim of history.”
“As a woman in an inter-racial relationship, and with my family,” she continues, “I was clear as to why I was with that person, to the point that my mother was convinced that my husband was really black. She loved him so, and he felt so familiar to her, that she said, ‘I think something in that family has some black in them.’ Most people who see people in a mixed race relationship, or who are the same sex, and think, ‘They live in a fantasy world. Both of them probably deny who they are to be together.’ But, the thing that they don’t realize is that you’re more hyper-aware of who you are because you have to be. Those relationships tend to last longer. The statistics on divorce in inter-racial and inter-faith marriages is so much lower than the divorce rate of the average ones.”
Although she has been happily married for over two decades, Woodard does admit to having been on the receiving end of the social pressure that comes with being part of an inter-racial relationship. “If I was walking by myself, in New York, nobody would whistle at me. But, suddenly, if I was with my husband, everybody would be interested. Occasionally, I’d ever get, ‘What are you doing with that white man?’ When people apologize for their presence, they become a target. If you’re walking down the street with your man, or if it ‘s someone of the same sex, you cannot apologize just for your presence. If somebody confronts me, I say, ‘I’m a good person because this person loves me, and I love him. We happen to have been born in different cultures, but I have more in common with this person.’ There are people all over the country who live in places where their lives are still in jeopardy because they are interracially mixed. But, the thing that’s wild about that is, you couldn’t possibly dilute the black or white race any more than it already is. Why people want to get picky about it now is amazing.”
As the matriarch of the only African American family on Wisteria Lane, Woodard is having a great time playing Betty Applewhite on season two of what is currently one of the most popular shows on television. But, she admits to never having seen an episode, when she was cast on the series.
“I had heard of it, but I hadn’t seen it,” she says. “Besides working and doing a lot of political action work, I am raising a 14-year-old daughter and a 12-year-old son. When I heard about the role, I said, ‘I’m interested, but I’ve never seen it.’ So, Marc Cherry said, ‘I’ll send you over some episodes. Call me tomorrow morning.’ I got 15 episodes at 6 o’clock at night, and my husband, my assistant and I divvied them up and went to different parts of the house to watch them. When we were done, we got back together, had a cup of coffee and said, ‘This is what happened.’ That marathon viewing stirred me up enough that I wanted to do it. I really liked that it
breaks form.”
Woodard, who is willing to stay with the show as long as Cherry, the creator, will allow, also has a few secrets to reveal about what to expect from her character for the remainder of the season. “Right now, we are headed into a whole new direction. We played out the mystery [of why my son was locked in the basement], and it’s time for them to get outed. You saw when he started to break out, and now, we are out in the open and Bree is on to me. She hasn’t seen the last of me. I gave that drunk gal a ride home, and then she turned on me. It’s like, ‘Oh, no, you do not turn on Betty Applewhite.’” |